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Thread: I'm 35 and my mom asks about my visits with my bf

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    Sheís not asking about my sex life. Sheís implying that she doesnít want me having sex.
    So?People imply all sorts of things. You can simply change the topic, not respond, walk away. Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Like I said just donít it. You donít have to discuss what you donít want to discuss. Thatís part of being an adult you donít discuss what you donít want to.
    Thank you. :) But I feel that if I tell my mom to stop telling me not to be intimate with Christian in our house sheíll take that as we are and forbid him from visiting. As I said, Iíll just play along. I feel thatís my only choice if I want to keep seeing Christian visit.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    Thank you. :) But I feel that if I tell my mom to stop telling me not to be intimate with Christian in our house sheíll take that as we are and forbid him from visiting. As I said, Iíll just play along. I feel thatís my only choice if I want to keep seeing Christian visit.
    It is her right to tell you not to be intimate in her house just agree with it. Thatís all thatís needed you guys donít have to have sex whenever you come together. Do that at his place.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    It is her right to tell you not to be intimate in her house just agree with it. Thatís all thatís needed you guys donít have to have sex whenever you come together. Do that at his place.
    It may be her right, but if she honestly believes her 35 year old daughter isnít having sex with her 34 year old boyfriend that is downright ludicrous. (She once found a jar of arousal cream in the guest room when my ex boyfriend spent the night. All she said was, ďItís a good thing Dad didnít find it!Ē)

    As I said, Iíll play along. Everyone is implying itís none of her business anyway.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    It may be her right, but if she honestly believes her 35 year old daughter isnít having sex with her 34 year old boyfriend that is downright ludicrous. (She once found a jar of arousal cream in the guest room when my ex boyfriend spent the night. All she said was, ďItís a good thing Dad didnít find it!Ē)

    As I said, Iíll play along. Everyone is implying itís none of her business anyway.
    Let her believe what she wants. She is another adult and will believe what she wants.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Let her believe what she wants. She is another adult and will believe what she wants.
    Fair enough.

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    Just a hint no parent wants to think of their kid having sex wether they are adults or not. That is just how it is. Wr understand they do it ,we just donít wanna know about it ,donít wanna talk about it and donít want to think about it. Do you want to think about your parents playing toad in the hole? Probably not.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Just a hint no parent wants to think of their kid having sex wether they are adults or not. That is just how it is. Wr understand they do it ,we just donít wanna know about it ,donít wanna talk about it and donít want to think about it. Do you want to think about your parents playing toad in the hole? Probably not.
    Lol ok. Makes perfect sense.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    Lol ok. Makes perfect sense.
    Yup , it is called boundaries.

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