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    Just know that people asking what you did while you were out is just normal conversation. But as far as your sex life goes you are not under obligation to talk about it. Iím going to be 54 and my mom still asks me what I did when I was out and I donít live anywhere near her.

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    Originally Posted by TulipWriter
    I agree. :) lol, if she asks, should I re-direct the question to her about dad?
    Nope, that is rude. Just say itís my business and Iím not discussing it.

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    I can't imagine asking my kids for details about their sex lives.

    Just ick.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Just know that people asking what you did while you were out is just normal conversation.
    Nice, I'll remember that. :)

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Just know that people asking what you did while you were out is just normal conversation.
    AGREE. This is "how was your day?" If you came back from visiting a female friend, went to Disney, or spent the day at the mall, it would be the same question. If you get defensive about it, she will think you are doing something that you think is wrong

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    Originally Posted by abitbroken
    AGREE. This is "how was your day?" If you came back from visiting a female friend, went to Disney, or spent the day at the mall, it would be the same question. If you get defensive about it, she will think you are doing something that you think is wrong
    Ok, I'll remember that.

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    Why are you living with your mom?

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    Originally Posted by SarahLancaster
    Why are you living with your mom?
    She is Autistic and lives with her parents. Almost all Autistics need levels of support which include living with family.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    She is Autistic and lives with her parents. Almost all Autistics need levels of support which include living with family.
    Couldn't have put it better myself. Thank you.

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    Surely she won't ask about your sex life? I think she's just trying to make conversation. You are not lying if you just don't tell her certain private details about your life. I don't live with my Mum but she texts me a lot. She does ask what have I been up to. I just say: "I watched TV, did chores, went for a walk". I wouldn't tell her every single thing like: "I had a coffee, then I masturbated..." lol You don't have to disclose every detail because some things are too personal. You have a right to your privacy and it's not lying.

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