Facebook share
LinkedIn share
Google plus share
Twitter plus share
Give Advice
Ask For Advice
Page 7 of 7 FirstFirst ... 4567
Results 61 to 67 of 67

Thread: Do women like short men who are older? Is there any hope there?

  1. #61
    Forum Supporter Fudgie's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2010
    Age
    30
    Posts
    15,436
    Gender
    Female
    It is very rare that one trait, either undesirable or unconventional, that is the ONE true deal-breaker for relationships. I mean, unless we are talking about you being a sex offender or something like that. But even sex offenders get into relationships/marriage.

    There is something else going on here. I've known many shorter men to go on and have successful relationships. Everyone has undesirable traits. The key is what you bring to the table overall, all of the positives and negatives.

    Stop focusing on your height for a minute and think about what else could be turning people off. You need to be brutally honest. if I were you, I'd ask a very close friend, or a couple, their thoughts.

  2. #62
    Platinum Member boltnrun's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2015
    Posts
    14,024
    I mean, I had a schnozz that looked like Al from Happy Days (or Jamie Farr from M.A.S.H.) and I found boyfriends and a husband.

  3. #63
    Platinum Member j.man's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2008
    Posts
    10,698
    Bro 5'6" isn't even that bad. If you were 5'1" I might give you a little bit of license to be a bit jaded. In most places, you're still taller than the average woman, which speaking generally, is the threshold wherein height isn't going to a conventional dating barrier. Honestly though, you just sound bitter. And hey, maybe in the beginning you carried yourself perfect and played everything right and just had bad luck. But I'm sure this pessimism is impacting your dating style and approach even if you aren't seeing it.

    I'm an inch taller than you and have had a fantastic dating life. I grew up in a Latino neighborhood with all kinds of short guys who have all been in relationships. You gotta reshape your attitude.

  4. #64
    Forum Supporter ~Seraphim ~'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared
    Age
    53
    Posts
    37,941
    Gender
    Female
    The average North American woman is 54 so most men are going to be taller than most women.

  5.  

  6. #65
    Platinum Member Wiseman2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2016
    Location
    Cloud Nine
    Posts
    39,483
    Gender
    Male
    Unfortunately having this angry, bitter chip on your shoulder will drive women away far more than your height.
    Originally Posted by ChrysChrys
    you obviously have nothing to say to help so please don't comment because you are not helpful! The problem is the height. You cannot feel it at the end of the day; I can!

  7. #66
    Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2020
    Posts
    11
    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Have you tried any of the dating sites I mentioned previously? The ones that cater to shorter men and women?

    Ok let me google them!

  8. #67
    Bronze Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2017
    Posts
    155
    It's your negativity and your obsession about your height.

    If it was all about your height (as you keep stating) then you might as well give up! Because let's be honest, that's not going to change. You're not going to have a growth spurt at 31.

    i started seeing some girls but realised that this was not lasting long; never more than one month

    They didn't realise until after a month that you were 5'6''? They spent the first month just thinking you were a long way away?

    I'm being a bit tongue in cheek here of course but there's an important point - if these girls did have an issue with your height, they wouldn't have started dating you in the first place.

Page 7 of 7 FirstFirst ... 4567

Videos


Wedding Jitters Could Be a Predictor for a Future Divorce

Botox Fights Depression And Makes You Feel Happier

Men Are More Sensitive than Women when Having Relationship Problems

Friendship Between Men and Women Often Involves Attraction

Infidelity

Most Women Rather Not Date Unemployed Men
Give Advice
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •