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    Imo, if after 2.5 years together your gut instinct is not to trust him and you feel that he is just passing his time with you until he goes back to his country, then you are with the wrong man. People don't change. Are you willing to keep feeling like the way you describe for as long as you are together? If not, then imo it's time to break up.

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    he definitely has a roving eye, no respect in there for you, cause always there is this level of uncertainty about his behavior when you are not with him.
    I think soon you may need to break things up cause he will be like this in general.

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    If you don't normally have a suspicious mind, and this hasn't been a problem with other guys you've dated, then why be with someone who regularly upsets you? I would find a guy constantly on the prowl with his eyeballs to be creepy, disrespectful to me and the other women, and a person with the mindset of getting off on seeing who around him is hot is objectifying women (done to this extreme extent). If that's who you think is the prized person worthy of spending a lifetime with, you have very low self-worth.

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    If you really feel in your gut and heart, he is just passing time with you, move out... don't play house with people you're unsure of.

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    Leave him

    Treat him the same

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    Don't waste anymore time with him. He will not change. He has zero respect for you at this point. End the relationship and don't look back.

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    You cannot control another person's mind and thoughts and body language. If the way he behaves ogling other women bothers you all that much, then unfortunately you're going to have to find a man who doesn't do this. This is who he is, and he's clearly not going to change just because you want him to. This behavior would bother some women but not others, so you need to find someone who doesn't do this, and he needs to find someone who doesn't care if he does.

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