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    41 years older

    Hello all
    Im currently I love with a man who is 41 years older than I. We met at work and had and instant connection. He interested me on a level that I had not ever known we talked for hours about life things we want to do and about our shared interests at the end of this all he said that he was In love with me I was unsure as we had always had this playful relationship. We made a date for coffee and whilst I was sat downstairs he was sat upstairs so we completely missed eachother, he later after that said he assumed i wasnt interested and I had assumed he had forgotten. After that we had a good laugh about it and tried again from there it was coffee date after coffee date and it grew into some inexplainable magnetic connection. Craving more and more time together. We have now been going for seven months
    I was wondering if there was anyone like me in the same situation. Id really like to talk and connect.
    Thank you

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    Are you having problems at work or with your friends or family? Do people at work or your friends and family know about him? Is his age a problem for you? Is this dating, friends or a relationship? What is it you want out of this? Why do you need to talk about it? What is the issue?
    Originally Posted by Tea97
    I love with a man who is 41 years older than I. We met at work. We have now been going for seven months. Id really like to talk.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Are you having problems at work or with your friends or family? Do people at work or your friends and family know about him? Is his age a problem for you? Is this dating, friends or a relationship? What is it you want out of this? Why do you need to talk about it? What is the issue?
    I just want to find someone whos in a similar situation as me. Are you In a situation such as this

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    Why? Are you worried about something?
    Originally Posted by Tea97
    I just want to find someone whos in a similar situation as me.

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    Nope we are doing fine looking for someone in a similar age gap thats all

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    You are an outlier so it's difficult to find people in the same situation, but a few do exist. Maybe you need to seek out an internet forum that focuses on May-December relationships. I imagine that there is bound to exist one somewhere.

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    First off how old are you and how old is he?

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    I wont disclose the age but we are both of legal consenting age

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    I don't think you're going to find too many other couples with a 40-year age gap, OP.

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    Originally Posted by MissCanuck
    I don't think you're going to find too many other couples with a 40-year age gap, OP.
    Yes definitely this is quite a long shot but just reaching out

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