Kicks818 Posted April 8, 2020 Share Posted April 8, 2020 So I recently came across the profile of this girl on IG that I recognize but have never spoken to. I saw her once at an event we both were volunteering for about a year ago. She also goes to the same gym as I although ive never actually seen her there before. I havw a big crush on her and want to talk to her in a classy and laid back manner to show her im interested in her. I'm pretty sure shes single. My question is should I DM her on instagram or wait until I see her at the gym to approach? I know women prefer boldness in men but I dont know that we will ever cross paths at the gym or volunteer place so DMing seems more straightforward. But i dont want to creep her out. I was just going to message her that I recognized her and hope to see her again at the volunteer place and that she has a cute smile. I did follow her profile but she didn't follow back so perhaps an in person conversation will make a better impression on her. I'm a bit embarrassed by this while conundrum but I just want to know if she has similar feelings for me so that I can move on if she doesn't. Thank you! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 8, 2020 Share Posted April 8, 2020 Neither. Do not message her cold or approach her for a date. You need to start some small talk and take it from there.So I recently came across the profile of this girl on IG that I recognize but have never spoken to. I havw a big crush on her. I was just going to message her that I recognized her and hope to see her again at the volunteer place and that she has a cute smile. Link to comment
Kicks818 Posted April 11, 2020 Author Share Posted April 11, 2020 Thanks. I messaged her and she replied with a smiley emoji lol Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted April 11, 2020 Share Posted April 11, 2020 What did your message state? Did you ask her out?I messaged her and she replied with a smiley emoji lol Link to comment
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