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    Rather than speculate in regards to what this Bozo is thinking, why not focus on what you were thinking. Obviously he did you a favor by kicking you out, rather than end up having your name on the front page.

    Time to think...

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    Meeting a total stranger at their place...stupid, stupid, stupid. What you did was very dangerous. And I'm sure your mom would have told you the same thing.

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    Originally Posted by oneubaile
    And then he says “Sunday my place 8pm”. I was so curious so I met up and we kinda had the same sense of humor and made him laugh a couple times. We were sitting in the couch on opposite sides facing eachother and then he says “come closer” I say “you come.. I’m the dominant one you’re the sub” jokingly and then he gets up and opens his door and says “you can leave unless you apologize” and I tell him “are you serious? I was kidding!” And he says “that was very rude” and so I chug my wine and leave and thank him for the wine and he closes the door.. did I go too far?
    You did the right thing.

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    did I go too far?
    Yes, in these ways:
    ----Meeting up with some random, disrespectful dude despite your better judgment
    ----Putting your self-interest before the rest of the world when people are getting sick.

    But otherwise, you acted appropriately.

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    What a jerk! He seems way too sensitive and has no sense of humour. To kick you out like that was inexcusable. I understand that dating during Covid is hard but don't accept any more first dates at a man's place, especially when alcohol is involved.

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    It makes no sense to go to the home of a stranger, much less during a quarantine. It's good that he kicked you out rather than harm you, but you've got 14 days or so to learn whether you've been infected through his lack of good judgment as well as your own.

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    Please stop meeting men right now. Stay at home

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    Don't be desperate, OP.

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    You're lucky you're not dead.


    Stay at home and STOP being eager and use your brain. Be safe.

    There's a chance you just passed on or contracted the virus. 😒

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Please tell us you are not dating during the stay at home order!!!

    Were you two wearing gloves? Did you sterilize everything before you sat down? Did you sterilize after leaving his place? Do you know if he sterilized the wine glass?

    I cannot believe some people are still trying to date!
    While your concerns are valid, I feel like the thing you should also be concerned about is her going to a stranger's house who she's never met.

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    Originally Posted by DaisyMayPorter
    While your concerns are valid, I feel like the thing you should also be concerned about is her going to a stranger's house who she's never met.
    Who says I wasn't?

    However, the OP should also be mindful of not only getting herself sick but those she encounters throughout her day.

    Anyway, she hasn't come back since she posted.

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