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    Is she lying to me?

    I have been dating this girl for approximately 3 weeks and things have been going great. Recently, a friend pointed out to me that she heard that the girl I was dating was sleeping with her colleague (they were caught by another colleague who walked in on them in the workplace). The one who walked in on them told my friend, and my friend told me. I asked the girl I was dating if this was true, and she got mad and told me it wasnt true. I dont know if she is lying to me as she got defensive over a simple question.

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    May or may not be true. I would just see how things go. Could be a red flag though. If there is another red flag, I would be out.
    When we are first dating someone there are usually signs of whether or not they are good/bad for us. Eyes open.

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    She hasnt been replying to me. I apologized for asking if it was out of place, but she hasnt replied.

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    Did this supposedly happen before you were dating? Also, who exactly is the person who told you? An ex? Or a friend?

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    This supposedly happened around 1-2 months before we were dating and it was told to be by a good friend of mine.

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    Itís definitely possible it happened. Once she cools down, youíll have to talk it out. Keep your eyes open with this girl though.

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    Thats what I was thinking. If it didnt happen she wouldnt have gotten so mad about it. And it wouldnt have been a big deal since it was before we started dating. If she doesnt want to talk or fix this, then I wouldnt want to force it.

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    Originally Posted by Jewels465
    May or may not be true. I would just see how things go. Could be a red flag though. If there is another red flag, I would be out.
    When we are first dating someone there are usually signs of whether or not they are good/bad for us. Eyes open.
    She hasnt been replying to me. I apologized for asking if it was out of place, but she hasnt replied.

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    Originally Posted by annalorraine
    Thats what I was thinking. If it didnt happen she wouldnt have gotten so mad about it. And it wouldnt have been a big deal since it was before we started dating. If she doesnt want to talk or fix this, then I wouldnt want to force it.
    That isn't necessarily true.

    She might also be upset that she is the subject of office gossip, OP. Especially if it's unfounded. I also can't agree that it was a simple question; it was a loaded one. You're only 3 weeks into this so it's a rather invasive question in any case. I am not saying the rumor definitely isn't true, but her reaction is not your indicator that is true, either. And if it wouldn't have been a big deal since it was before you were dating, then why ask her about it to begin with? Something to think about.

    In any event, if she isn't responding to you, there's not a lot you can do. She might be willing to talk once the dust settles a little.

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    Why did you ask, you weren't dating?

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