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    Platinum Member Lambert's Avatar
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    You did everything you could for her?

    You beat her.

    And you're acting like you're the victim. Its never ok to abuse anyone.

    Get help douche!

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Well, according to Douche (apt name, BTW), it was HER fault for not behaving appropriately in the relationship.

    Typical abuser talk, blaming the person they're hitting.

    OP, please see a therapist who specializes in abuse so you can stop thinking there's ever a good excuse to hit people.
    I didn't see his screen name, but you are right, it is appropriate!

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    You're madly in love with a woman whom you physically assaulted. How does that work?

    No one should hit another person, but a man hitting a woman is a coward, (imo).

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    Love doesn’t hit people. Period. You are employing typical abuser BS explanations.

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    Honestly the fact you'd name your thread "Violence and Love" in some kind of poetic fashion after you were beating your girlfriend is pretty disturbing. Leave her be. Get help.

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    She is right to block you for good, OP. I would have nothing to do with you anymore, either.

    You need help. The way you describe all of this? You have taken no real accountability and still have a disturbing sense of entitlement, positioning yourself as the victim. You still don't get it.

    Leave her alone.

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