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    Sounds like you did all you could by someone you didnít know and not much by those you did?

    What advice are you looking for exactly?
    How to be with someone that doesnít give a craap about you?

    What is wrong with you?!!

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    Change the locks. Do not contact her or see her. She is married and has issues with her husband. Use this opportunity to get her out of the apt and out of your life. Focus on your kids and being the best dad you can be and work on a better co-parenting situation with their mother.
    Originally Posted by Douche
    she got mad and insisted. Demanded for the keys.
    Random calls from his husband. S
    I left my family for her
    She had to work from home and "home" means being at her husband's parents' house.

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    I can't open up my feelings about her situation cause that will spark up an argument that will lead to her leaving me.
    Then get opening up those feelings, dude!

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    Please see a therapist who specializes in abuse so you can stop thinking you have the right to hit women.

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    Have you thought for a minute what you did to your wife or kids? I am thinking not. You are too selfish and entitled to think of any but yourself. On top of it you are an abusive SOB! I hope that she calls the police and you get locked up. You are the only one responsible for the abuse.

    Your kids will never forget what YOU did to them.

    End this and get some help.

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    You're lucky you're not in jail. She can still press charges. Get a grip.
    Originally Posted by Douche
    I get so frustrated that I end up hurting her physically. She never said sorry for neglecting her responsibility as my partner

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    So itís okay to lay hands on her because she neglected her duty as your partner? Even if she was the worst girlfriend in the world you never lay your hands on someone!

    I get you feel bad but you need therapy so you donít do that again. Iím sorry but this girl has every right to block you. Youíre best bet? Anger management and self reflection.

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    I also do not understand how one can proclaim to love someone they beat.

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    I also do not understand how one can proclaim to love someone they beat.
    Well, according to Douche (apt name, BTW), it was HER fault for not behaving appropriately in the relationship.

    Typical abuser talk, blaming the person they're hitting.

    OP, please see a therapist who specializes in abuse so you can stop thinking there's ever a good excuse to hit people.

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    You made your bed now lay in it. You only have yourself to blame for the poor choices that you make. As soon as you own it, get help.

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