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Thread: Is this common? Am i being selfish?

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    Originally Posted by tied2u
    I know. I honestly look like someone who doesnít smoke but.. i smoke A lot. Almost everyday
    Why not make it everyday? O.O Getting Ready for a First Date

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    Originally Posted by tied2u
    I know. I honestly look like someone who doesnít smoke but.. i smoke A lot. Almost everyday
    Yes, as Wiseman says - smoking what?

    Is this guy regarding you as a project, someone he can rescue, in exchange for using you for sex when he feels like it?

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    Originally Posted by nutbrownhare
    Yes, as Wiseman says - smoking what?

    Is this guy regarding you as a project, someone he can rescue, in exchange for using you for sex when he feels like it?
    Good question but, I hardly think she cares if the only thing she addressed when she came back in is that she's a human smoke stack?

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    Good question but, I hardly think she cares if the only thing she addressed when she came back in is that she's a human smoke stack?
    I read all of them. I was going to write back at 2Am....
    I donít want to see this guy anymore.

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    Originally Posted by nutbrownhare
    Yes, as Wiseman says - smoking what?

    Is this guy regarding you as a project, someone he can rescue, in exchange for using you for sex when he feels like it?
    no. I donít want to portray it that way. He wasnít using me. I just wanted to know and hang out with him because i always ask him if he wants to smoke. yet itís his. Always says yes. Itís my craving and it sucks. I always associate with people like this and I just want to find someone who genuinely cares.

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    Originally Posted by jimthzz
    So a smoothy makes you obligated to have sex with him?

    Turn down the smoothy and get one at Juice It Up or buy a blender.

    You don't need his manipulative life lessons.

    If I were you I'd kick him to the curb. If you need a boyfriend look for one who doesn't want you to endure transactional sex.
    Thatís the thing.. I donít want a boyfriend. I want someone who i can spend time with, And also i can grow with at the same time. (I had before... But only through the phone).
    Thank you
    I donít feel the connection too much anymore

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    Originally Posted by lostandhurt
    Why don't you dump this coworker and figure out if you are really interested in the other guy you have been hanging out with for 5 months and then go from there?

    This older guy sounds like he is trying to be your father, not your bf and ANY MAN that forces you to have sex with him needs to be removed from your life today!

    This is your life and your choice so stand up for yourself and stop thinking your body is a commodity to be offered for some advice and a smoothie.

    I am sure you can do way better than either one of these guys

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    This got me. **

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    Originally Posted by tied2u
    I read all of them. I was going to write back at 2Am....
    I donít want to see this guy anymore.
    So what's your plan to get away from him? Share with us so you will keep your confidence and actually ditch the douche.

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    Then buy your own cigarettes, pot, healthy food or whatever and find some friends. Having sex with a coworker in exchange for food, drugs, cigarettes, pot whatever is a bad situation.
    Originally Posted by tied2u
    Thatís the thing.. I donít want a boyfriend. I want someone who i can spend time with

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