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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    Yes, I understand but I also understand that if he did not want to marry this particular girl then he could have asked his parents to pick someone else or, if they wouldn't do that then he could have let himself be disowned. Instead he went along with their choice and now lives alone. How is that honouring his family? This is why I think he is just trying to groom you and is lying to you about his situation. He has caused his parents to be dishonoured. I'm sure her parents are looking down at all of them right now if their daughter is still living with them and he hasn't been acting as a husband who accepts his parents choices and behaves like a good son.
    I don't know if he is lying or not. He said that his family forced him emotionaly to get married. And his family disowned him. I think he should have ran away before marriage. Now he regrets his descion(he told me). He is good man because if he wanted to use me he should have done that, there is noone who can tell me about his marriage he himself told me that. And whenever he talk to me we both keep in mind that he is married, we both be in limits(only professional talks or you okay type). Only one time he told me all this after that we never talked about this. I don't ask anything personal to him nor he tell me. Its just he is stubborn. Looking this from only his side only. He said he will do right everything but just now dont want to. he is hurt too. Hoping for good. Thanks
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    And whenever he talk to me we both keep in mind that he is married,
    That is your problem you are still talking to him. Stop talking to him so you can get over your crush and be ready to find a good man that is available to give you everything that a married man cannot.

    You will never be able to help him and you are currently being groomed to be his side piece. Can you really trust a man that is married and willing to use another woman (you) to feel better about himself? Of course you can't.

    Stop being his psychiatrist and get your own life going forward. If he has trouble in life then he should go to a professional psychiatrist so he can learn to accept what he let his parents do to him.

    Your own parents would not approve of your behavior with this married man so put a stop to it now before you're addicted to his whining about this.

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    Originally Posted by ThatwasThen
    That is your problem you are still talking to him. Stop talking to him so you can get over your crush and be ready to find a good man that is available to give you everything that a married man cannot.

    You will never be able to help him and you are currently being groomed to be his side piece. Can you really trust a man that is married and willing to use another woman (you) to feel better about himself? Of course you can't.

    Stop being his psychiatrist and get your own life going forward. If he has trouble in life then he should go to a professional psychiatrist so he can learn to accept what he let his parents do to him.

    Your own parents would not approve of your behavior with this married man so put a stop to it now before you're addicted to his whining about this.
    Thanks. You are right its time to think about only myself. 😊

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    Originally Posted by Shomi
    Thanks. You are right its time to think about only myself. 😊
    Good. I hope you mean that and take the necessary steps to help yourself get over your crush on him. (by going zero contact) You deserve better than a married man. It doesn't matter that he doesn't want to be in the marriage, the fact is that he IS married and you should want more for yourself than that.

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