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Thread: So Iím 17 heís 28

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    Jade,
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    There's something mentally wrong with a 28 year old dating a 17 year old. Your brain won't be fully formed until you're 25, and so you won't realize this until you have more life experience under your belt. Be alone for now and distance yourself from him. You aren't mentally ready to date anyone when you have such a great fear of losing that person, which is smothering to a partner and unhealthy for you. Is your father absent from your life? Sometimes girls who seek out much older men are subconsciously trying to find a man to fill that role in romance.

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    Originally Posted by Andrina
    There's something mentally wrong with a 28 year old dating a 17 year old. Your brain won't be fully formed until you're 25, and so you won't realize this until you have more life experience under your belt. Be alone for now and distance yourself from him. You aren't mentally ready to date anyone when you have such a great fear of losing that person, which is smothering to a partner and unhealthy for you. Is your father absent from your life? Sometimes girls who seek out much older men are subconsciously trying to find a man to fill that role in romance.
    I agree and I question the motives of a grown man who wants to be with a teenager. There is something rather insidious about it.

    If you're still reading I too would like to know what your parents are saying about you dating a man 11 years your senior. You sound very naive and he sounds like he's grooming you rather than mentoring you.

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