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    . .I think the fact that he would have had to put some effort into scrolling back 18 months worth of texts to find them seems pretty premeditated. The texts transpired happened quite some time ago. Had he simply been curious all this time?
    I know I'm not helping sooth the posters concerns, but me-thinks it's not the first time he's visited the pictures.

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    but me-thinks it's not the first time he's visited the pictures.
    Me thinks so too.

    I have bad anxiety so I just never know if I am overreacting or not. Everything is an internal crisis in my mind.
    Then I'd count this episode as you over thinking and then maybe consider going to your doctor for a referral to a therapist to get help in managing that anxiety and over thinking. You may even have a bit of postpartum depression going on which is fueling your overthinking. Add to the fact that normally, you are not allowed to have sex until six or so weeks after birth, I'd say it's no wonder you are feeling all the things you are feeling. Do tell your doctor about your fears and feelings so you can get help in resolving any of them that are negative in nature.

    I hope you feel better soon.

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    he is lying and quite disrespectful. he can get porn in his phone too.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Why would he delete messages to you if he wanted to look at pics? it sounds like he sent you something in error. His story makes no sense .
    She says exactly why: he SENT THE PHOTOS TO HIMSELF. He used her phone to send the photos (jack off material) to himself, so he had to get rid of the evidence. So yes he was hiding something, and yes it makes all sorts of sense.

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    I shouldn't laugh because that's some super creepy stuff right there, but holy **** this guy's a human blooper real. A grown as man sitting on the floor and thinking he's real slick getting up like he found your phone for you, not knowing how to delete single messages on the phone, and then when I'm expecting nothing less but a bold-faced lie, he hits you with that doozy of a truth. "Yeah, I was looking up your friends' t1ts, beat off to 'em, tried to send the pics to myself, tried to delete the texts, messed that up, and had to delete our whole conversation history."

    Then he for real just gives you a kiss goodbye like "I'll be home in time for dinner?" How your brain didn't just shut down trying to compute that series of events is nothing short of incredible.

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    He was trying to think up a story.
    Originally Posted by damnedifido
    He said it was his fault and he’d explain later. I couldn’t handle not knowing all day, so he told me.

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    ... or he was afraid to tell her the truth that he was masturbating to a visual of someone other than her.???

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    Originally Posted by MaybeThen
    She says exactly why: he SENT THE PHOTOS TO HIMSELF. He used her phone to send the photos (jack off material) to himself, so he had to get rid of the evidence. So yes he was hiding something, and yes it makes all sorts of sense.
    or it was too much trouble scrolling back 18 months worth of text to keep finding them

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    He probably told you some version of what actually happened, but this won't be by far the last time you deal with something like this from him. Untrustworthy behavior is never a one-off.

    In the meantime, put a password on your phone.

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    I'd view it as a hostile act for a husband to tell me that he masturbated to someone else's photo.

    Is he generally cruel to you?

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