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Thread: Does he like me or is he just horny and kinky?

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    Age-gap relationships are usually about sex or money, so be careful

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    Originally Posted by Ash1923
    I have feelings for him I just dont really know if it's real for him or not
    It's not real.

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    The thing is when we're younger, we can see older people in this great light. Like they are so together and know so much more.

    They have the life experience, more money and material things, that makes them seem like they know what's best etc. And being older, they have almost an authority that we don't. because we're young and haven't done as much.

    But here's the truth hon, age is something that comes whether you learn, grow, or mature. He being 40 something, it is, definitely, YOU that are making him better than he is.

    He's using your youth and inexperience against you. Giving you nothing, but enjoying the sex. The whole cuckold thing.... If you are not into that, do not do it. Its just one more psychological control he will have over you....

    In other words: run like hell...

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    There is so much wrong with this situation. Lose this guy, it has only been two months.

    If someone suggested the cuckholding, I would have been DONE. Damn, it is only two months and he is going there.

    Block and delete after ending,.

    Lastly, do not ever do things that you are not comfortable with in the bedroom.
    Last edited by Hollyj; 02-26-2020 at 01:09 PM.

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    Originally Posted by Ash1923
    I've been dating this guy who is about 2 decades older than me for 2 months now. Before me ,he hadn't been in a relationship for 6 yrs and he is just very set in his routine and comfortable being alone. I'm the opposite I like affection and I show it verbally and with my actions. Hes quite different he says he only shows emotions through actions. He'll cook for me or do other small things that show care but sometimes because it's not a constant thing in our relationship I wonder if he truly feels something for me . Hell ,call me needy but I sometimes like reassurance that the feelings are not one sided. Like there are times where I'll tell him I miss him and I get no response but then I'll ask something like do you want a casual relationship and he says it's not his thing . He says he wants to take things slow because hes been in situations where things went fast and they died out. Maybe it's my past experiences or womanly intuition but I don't know if I believe that . Anyway fast foward to us getting intimate he reveals he has a kink . He likes being cuckolded. I have barely had sexual experiences. I've only been intimate with one other besides him and dont know how I feel about doing that with a stranger just so he can live out his fantasy . I don't want to jump for someone when I'm not really sure where this is going . Sometimes he'll talk about future plans or say things like I'm not asking for the fantasy right now, that would take time and care , in the distant future. And that there are many elements that play into the fantasy. He said he likes being my guardian and protector . I also asked if I were to actually make this fantasy a reality if I could do it with someone I have an emotional connection to , he said no it can only be sexual. Am I crazy or is this man ing with me? We've had sex twice before , could he just be saying things like that to get what he wants and that's it or are his feelings genuine?
    Two months in and he's already grooming you to be someone you are clearly not comfortable being and he's grooming you to accept his non committed self while being degraded as well. Good grief.

    Listen to your gut and get away from this 2 decade older man who is so incompatible with you that its scary. Keep your confidence and leave him in your dust. He'll have you doubting your own eye colour in no time at all if you keep going with him.

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    Pardon my ignorance, but I had to look up what "cuckolding" was. And I agree with Lambert's sentiment that you should run like hell. This is not a good place for you. He wants to exploit you as his sexual object and has stated it clearly. This is a bad situation that you should extricate yourself from immediately and permanently.

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    Originally Posted by jul-els
    Pardon my ignorance, but I had to look up what "cuckolding" was. And I agree with Lambert's sentiment that you should run like hell. This is not a good place for you. He wants to exploit you as his sexual object and has stated it clearly. This is a bad situation that you should extricate yourself from immediately and permanently.
    I had to look it up too.

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    Hopefully you are not naive enough to provide this guy with live porn shows. Is he a porn video producer? (there will be videotaping, don't kid yourself) Will you get paid for being a porn star? Run.
    Originally Posted by Ash1923
    He likes being cuckolded. I have barely had sexual experiences. I've only been intimate with one other besides him and dont know how I feel about doing that with a stranger just so he can live out his fantasy

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    Originally Posted by Hollyj
    I had to look it up too.
    i also looked it up.

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