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Thread: Am I to blame? Don't know how to go from here.

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    Originally Posted by Yahsud
    She doesn't even read it. Leaves it on un read and doesn't open it.
    She gets the message because it shows delivered so she is deliberately ignoring it.
    So you are not even talking in person? She is doing this purposely to get to you. Unfriend her. And quite contacting her.

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    There's never been anything about this relationship that says "keep trying...". The woman was never all that invested, so spinning your wheels is never going to change that.

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    Originally Posted by loyal
    So you are not even talking in person? She is doing this purposely to get to you. Unfriend her. And quite contacting her.
    Nope, she won't meet. We ended things through text. I wanted to meet up and talk but she wouldn't.

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    Originally Posted by catfeeder
    There's never been anything about this relationship that says "keep trying...". The woman was never all that invested, so spinning your wheels is never going to change that.
    Never? So you think she was never really that into the relationship. Ouch!

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    Ok this is nonsense communication. You are in the male-girlfriend zone and that is worse than the friendzone. When you delete and block her, you'll be free to move forward.
    Originally Posted by Yahsud
    One was about a tv series if I had watched. The latest was if I had managed to do anything on the weekend.

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    Originally Posted by Yahsud
    Never? So you think she was never really that into the relationship. Ouch!
    You said that here:
    I tried to talk abiut things but I would just get 'don't worry'. No matter what I tried to fix things she didn't seem too invested.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Ok this is nonsense communication. You are in the male-girlfriend zone and that is worse than the friendzone. When you delete and block her, you'll be free to move forward.
    Didn't know that was a thing but ok.

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    Originally Posted by catfeeder
    You said that here:

    Didn't seem invested in fixing our relationship

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    She isn’t interested in being friends, OP. Acquaintances, sure, but she doesn’t really want you as a chat buddy.

    You need to delete her off social media. You’re taking everything she does personally when she’s just living her life and probably not thinking how any of it might come across to you.

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