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    Originally Posted by L1987
    hes disrespected me so much which is why i dont know how i can still feel like this , i think everything is harder because im pregnant and because i expected things to be so different than they actually are. i cant believe im going to be stuck raising a child by myself, cant believe hes going back home to his family...its just a shock! and even after all this i dont want him to leave. imust have something wrong with me!!
    No, you disrespected yourself when you decided to help a married man cheat and be the other woman in someone else's relationship. Even more so when you failed to use proper protection and got yourself knocked up to boot. You just can't believe? Can't believe what - that a married cheater will lie and cheat? You made some insanely bad choices, now you get to deal with the consequences. Time to grow up, get your head out of your arse and start making better decisions for yourself. You aren't a victim here, you made conscious terrible decisions all by yourself, so yes, now you get to live with the consequences all by yourself. Nobody lives your life for you.

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    What is most disturbing is that you moved in a married man two months after knowing him. You have subjected your child to all sorts of emtioal abuse , yet you are shocked and hurt that he left.

    Be a better parent and start thinking of your kid, for once! Your kid deserves much better than what you are offering.

    Perhaps, someone else can raise your current Kid?

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    Did you get pregnant on purpose? Was is sort of an ultimatum for him?

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    You need a lawyer, and you need him/her now.

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    Originally Posted by melancholy123
    You need a lawyer, and you need him/her now.
    Yep. I'd address practical stuff first and let all else play out without my influence. I'd learn my rights and options, then I'd be armed with the information I need to make the right choices for myself and my baby.

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