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Thread: I want to leave but I'm terrified of how he'll react

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    Good for you! Also, it may not be as hard as you think it will.

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    Good for you. And your plan sounds mature and totally doable.

    Please confide in a trusted friend or family member in case you need backup.

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    Quick update for everyone! I finally left! I got my own apartment and I'm actually doing good. The breakup went a lot smoother than I thought it would, but I think that's mostly because he took it more like we are on a break rather than a permanent break up. Which is fine, whatever allows me to leave more safely. I hate to be a little dishonest, but this way we can both get the space we need. I already feel so much better in every way.

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    Never mind about being "dishonest", you did exactly the right thing.

    Please assure us you did not give him your new address.

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    Nope, he doesn't know. He also said he understands I need this for me, and he doesn't want to stop me if it's what I really need. No real attempts at guilting me or keeping me where I don't wanna be.

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    Good for you OP. Sounds like hes expecting this. Keep your distance from him.

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