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    Ticking time bomb

    Hello and thank you for reading! I have known and worked with this guy for about 2 years now. We have always kind of hit it off together but we’ve both been in our separate relationships. A few months ago, we were both at a party and some things kind of came out and we have been doing the same ever since. He is getting married in less than 6 months, what does one do here?

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    Stay away from this guy. So what that you feel as though you have a connection. Lust is all it is, nothing special.

    Speaking of nothing special, an engaged man flirting with you and you feeling special about it. And what about your own relationship?

    Think!

    And move on.

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    I agree with jimthzz!

    Stay away from the betrothed! They are off limits!

    Remain well mannered, polite, proper and professional with your coworker. Exercise self-control and discretion.

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    You really have to ask this? You stay away from a man who is engaged to marry someone else.

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    What “things came out” and what have you “been doing ever since”? You’re either skirting around that part or I’m slow on the uptake. If you’ve been fooling around; stop. If you’ve been talking about fooling around; stop also. This shows a very poor sense of boundaries and respect. It will only end up with four unhappy people, one way or another, eventually. Exercise some self control and restraint and stop yourself now.

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    One does nothing but cut it off, OP.

    You're going to get hurt if you think this could lead anywhere.

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    You know what to do, you just don't want to stop.
    Originally Posted by Seeknotfound
    A few months ago, we were both at a party and some things kind of came out and we have been doing the same ever since. He is getting married in less than 6 months.

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    You both admit you find each other attractive...so what. Throughout life everyone has a crush that isn't their SO. Perfectly normal, and the majority of the time nothing every comes of it. People simply understand boundaries and don't act on it. So there you have it. There's nothing else to to do about but just carry on as is. Life goes on.

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    I think this OP is one and done, but I am curious to know what this means:
    "A few months ago, we were both at a party and some things kind of came out and we have been doing the same ever since. "

    OP, if you ever come back can you explain this?

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    ^^^ yea... wt heck does that even mean?

    Bottom line, dude isn't available to be with you so back off and do what you know is the right thing if these "things" that came out are about wanting to get bizzy with one another. Show yourself some self respect and don't cave to a taken guys Bull****.

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