Gingerdil Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 Well I dont know where to start here? Met a girl over 4yrs ago who I knew had issues but I guess they have escalated over time. It started with me dropping all female friends because of her insecurities yet she can flirt with multiple Male friends on facebook. I dropped my facebook account because she had taken to messaging friends telling them I'm a woman beater. This is a woman who attacked me 5 times. The 5th time she basically sunk her teeth into my cheek & tried to bite a chunk out of me. I reacted by fighting her off & 2 years later she still has the pictures of her bruises saved on my phone & threatens to go to the police if I leave her. She has messaged my mother & brother abuse & when they reacted she banned them from our home. Somehow she is still the victim & I'm the monster. I'm in the process of trying to move out but her outbursts of tears & suicide threats keep holding me back. Now I find out shes been on plenty of fish so I feel like she is holding me here until she finds the next man to torment. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted February 15, 2020 Share Posted February 15, 2020 To answer your question...yes. She can't have you arrested for an alleged assault that took place two years ago! Surely you know this. Leave her now. Let her get on with searching for her next victim. Link to comment
goddess Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 Not only is she very manipulative but there's something missing upstairs. Don't fall for her drama, dude. Get out as quickly as you can. Why on earth would you even be involved with this crazy woman? There are red flags everywhere. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 Why are you choosing to stay with her? It's amazing you aren't both in jail for all the assaults and violence. Are you on drugs? What is fueling this? Go home yo your family and get a restraining order. she had taken to messaging friends telling them I'm a woman beater.The 5th time she basically sunk her teeth into my cheek & tried to bite a chunk out of me. I reacted by fighting her off & 2 years later she still has the pictures of her bruises saved on my phone & threatens to go to the police if I leave her. She has messaged my mother & brother abuse & when they reacted she banned them from our home. Somehow she is still the victim & I'm the monster. I'm in the process of trying to move out but her outbursts of tears & suicide threats keep holding me back. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 She is more than manipulative, OP. She is not mentally stable. You know this. Get out of there immediately. Consult an attorney for advice if she actually contacts the police about the injuries she sustained during this confrontation. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 Good grief. Get the hell out of there, and block her from everything. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted February 16, 2020 Share Posted February 16, 2020 Stop feeding the bears. Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Is she Manipulative? Ahh.. Yeah! Why you didn't leave when she went at you the first time, I dont know.. let alone 5? She threatens you.. Red flag No 2 She has made you feel you can't have female friends? Red flag No 3 Telling women YOU are a woman beater? Red flag 4 She is severely messed up & controlling.. You need to get out of this.. Stop letting her play 'victim'. Get away and keep going! Let her go play of POF.. be glad she is gone.. Get yourself back to good and move on with your life. No one needs any of this bs :/ Link to comment
catfeeder Posted February 17, 2020 Share Posted February 17, 2020 Why didn't you move out after attack number 1? You're both getting something out of this. Link to comment
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