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    Is She Manipulative

    Well I dont know where to start here?
    Met a girl over 4yrs ago who I knew had issues but I guess they have escalated over time. It started with me dropping all female friends because of her insecurities yet she can flirt with multiple Male friends on facebook. I dropped my facebook account because she had taken to messaging friends telling them I'm a woman beater. This is a woman who attacked me 5 times. The 5th time she basically sunk her teeth into my cheek & tried to bite a chunk out of me. I reacted by fighting her off & 2 years later she still has the pictures of her bruises saved on my phone & threatens to go to the police if I leave her. She has messaged my mother & brother abuse & when they reacted she banned them from our home. Somehow she is still the victim & I'm the monster. I'm in the process of trying to move out but her outbursts of tears & suicide threats keep holding me back. Now I find out shes been on plenty of fish so I feel like she is holding me here until she finds the next man to torment.

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    Platinum Member boltnrun's Avatar
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    To answer your question...yes.

    She can't have you arrested for an alleged assault that took place two years ago! Surely you know this.

    Leave her now. Let her get on with searching for her next victim.

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    Not only is she very manipulative but there's something missing upstairs. Don't fall for her drama, dude. Get out as quickly as you can. Why on earth would you even be involved with this crazy woman? There are red flags everywhere.

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    Why are you choosing to stay with her? It's amazing you aren't both in jail for all the assaults and violence. Are you on drugs? What is fueling this? Go home yo your family and get a restraining order.
    Originally Posted by Gingerdil
    she had taken to messaging friends telling them I'm a woman beater.The 5th time she basically sunk her teeth into my cheek & tried to bite a chunk out of me. I reacted by fighting her off & 2 years later she still has the pictures of her bruises saved on my phone & threatens to go to the police if I leave her. She has messaged my mother & brother abuse & when they reacted she banned them from our home. Somehow she is still the victim & I'm the monster. I'm in the process of trying to move out but her outbursts of tears & suicide threats keep holding me back.

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    She is more than manipulative, OP. She is not mentally stable. You know this.

    Get out of there immediately. Consult an attorney for advice if she actually contacts the police about the injuries she sustained during this confrontation.

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    Good grief. Get the hell out of there, and block her from everything.

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    Stop feeding the bears.

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    Is she Manipulative? Ahh.. Yeah!
    Why you didn't leave when she went at you the first time, I dont know.. let alone 5?
    She threatens you.. Red flag No 2
    She has made you feel you can't have female friends? Red flag No 3
    Telling women YOU are a woman beater? Red flag 4
    She is severely messed up & controlling.. You need to get out of this.. Stop letting her play 'victim'.
    Get away and keep going!

    Let her go play of POF.. be glad she is gone.. Get yourself back to good and move on with your life.
    No one needs any of this bs :/

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    Why didn't you move out after attack number 1? You're both getting something out of this.


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