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    Tell coworkers. "I don't know", "I'm not sure", etc stop the office romance gossip. Be Professional at work. It's not a soap opera. Tell this creep "No" it's that simple. What are you allowing/inviting this and chasing him? Don't you have bf outside of work?
    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    Is there a way i cab phrase it? Because he seriously asks me every time i see him. 😑

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    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    Thank you EVERYONE for all the advice. Seriously helped me soo much! Literally every single person that replied to this thread.
    Thank you seriously!
    What can i tell the coworker that keeps asking me about him though?
    Is there a way i cab phrase it? Because he seriously asks me every time i see him. 😑
    What, exactly, does he ask?

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    No, i dont have a boyfriend.
    And like what's going on between you and him? Those tyoe of questions
    Last edited by ConfusedF25; 02-13-2020 at 03:16 PM. Reason: Because

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    Ok. Work is not a singles bar or a dating site. Do not insinuate that anything is going on. It's no one's business. Besides do you want to be the target of office gossip? Change the subject and talk about your interests outside of work. Where you volunteer, what classes you're taking, what movies you saw, your pets, your last vacation, etc. Act professional at work. Work is to keep a job and get a paycheck. Join some clubs and groups, take some classes and courses volunteer, get on some quality dating apps. Start talking to and meeting men Outside of work.
    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    Uhh no i dont have a boyfriend.

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    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    No, i dont have a boyfriend.
    And like what's going on between you and him? Those tyoe of questions
    just say `nothin' and walk away. He'll only ask if he thinks he'll be rewarded with an answer. Just block the question and move on.

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    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    No, i dont have a boyfriend.
    And like what's going on between you and him? Those tyoe of questions
    Tell him nothing is going on, and to please stop asking questions about your personal life.

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    I will. However it kinda feels like my cowroker is asking to tell him what im saying, which feels like the reason hes asking. 😑

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    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    I will. However it kinda feels like my cowroker is asking to tell him what im saying, which feels like the reason hes asking.
    If so that's childish. Be the more mature one

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    Leave him alone. Date outside of work and you wouldn't have these issues getting too touchy-feely with men at work who have gfs. The workplace is not a dating site or singles bar. Stop making a fool of yourself.
    Originally Posted by ConfusedF25
    I will. However it kinda feels like my cowroker is asking to tell him what im saying, which feels like the reason hes asking. 😑

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