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Thread: Caught boyfriend leaving hearts under other womanís Instagram photo

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    Caught boyfriend leaving hearts under other womanís Instagram photo

    So Iíve been with my boyfriend for a month. We both follow each other on Instagram. One day I came across a photo of a girl in lingerie on his friends list. I click on this photo and I see that my boyfriend has left a heart under the picture. This photo is old.. from two years ago. Yet his comment was brand new only left a few hours ago. I was very upset. I confronted my boyfriend about this and he says itís something heís always done. He agrees that I have a right to be upset and he understands my feelings and heís sorry. Okay. So I accept his apology, heís left hearts on other girls photo even before we were in a relationship. However this still rubs me the wrong way. Iím thinking, is he sorry he got caught? Like what were his intentions of leaving a heart and leaving multiple likes on her pics. Suppose the girl sent him a dm. Then where would we be? Iím considering breaking up with my boyfriend. Iíve had a terrible track run with men in the past whoíve betrayed me and I honestly canít go through it again. What do you think I should do?

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    Have you agreed to be exclusive in this month?

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    Yes we have been boyfriend and girlfriend for this month. Heís introduced me several times as his girlfriend to his friends, they know all about me. Iíve done the same

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    Is he sorry? I would say, probably not. He enjoys looking at this woman. He's probably sorry that he got caught.

    Some women would accept his behavior and not find it a big deal seeing as it's only a picture. Other women would not be okay with it and would move on to another guy who isn't so forward about leering at women.

    It really comes down to what your preferences are and what you're okay and not okay with.

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    Iím more concerned with him leaving the heart. Itís like he wanted her to know he finds her attractive. For what exactly? Is this pre cheating behavior? What if she found him attractive too.

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    A like doesnít bother me as much as the heart comment. Itís virtual flirting to me. Iím having a really hard time getting over it.

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    How long have you actually known him, OP?

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    Two months.

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    Ideally there shouldnít be any drama in the first month. I would let this fish go. I would really slow the roll though about how fast you become entangled with someone.

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    Virtual flirting, yes...it does sound like it.

    It's up to you whether you want this type of man or not. I will tell you from my experience, this type of behavior only gets worse over time. You and he are still in the honeymoon stage and if he has eyes for other women right now, that's not a good sign.

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