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    I have some update to my story.

    Almost 6 months have past since last we texted. I have not reach out to her after that. Since then she has logged off from the chat program that we were using. I know that she only use this chat program exclusively just for us. Through out the past few months I noticed that she has logged in every 1 or two weeks, but never remain online or send me any text.

    Recently she changed her chat handle and profile picture that have some meaning like ending & starting new, and expressing lost of our relationship, I am pretty sure it's a song she wants to express. Sometimes I have seen her online longer and then disappear again, but still no message from her, neither from me. I know she wants to convey something to me, what should I do now? is she playing mind game with me? this is triggering my emotions quite a bit...I'm thinking if i should break NC and just find out what she wants, but I also don't want to get hurt again...

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    honestly, I would delete the app and not read into anything.

    That is such minimal effort to get your attention. After all this time and considering you are broken up, I would only respond to her if and when I am reached out to directly, and intentionally. And even then, I would be completely reserved and provide nothing in ways of an ego boost.

    Anything less is beneath what you deserve and is not worth your time. Do not allow yourself to be manipulated like that. so easily

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    I have other friends on this app that I talk to regularly.
    Last edited by M31; 06-22-2020 at 03:55 PM.

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    Stay strong and stay NC. Don't let curiosity get to you.
    Originally Posted by M31
    I'm thinking if i should break NC and just find out what she wants, but I also don't want to get hurt again...

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    Originally Posted by M31
    I have other friends on this app that I talk to regularly.
    Can you talk to them another way? Logging in there and seeing her activity is only holding you back.

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