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Thread: Will I ever get to date someone or even get laid?

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    Will I ever get to date someone or even get laid?

    I've never had a girlfriend nor have I been laid. Hear me out before y'all comment the same thing I've been hearing over and over again. It's easy to just sit there and say that you're not trying enough or that you just want it easy. All the ty advice, suggestions and tips I've read so far say the same thing. Put yourself in those situations, go out more, dress well, confidence. I've done all that without googling that . I've tried everything, literally moved to another country to try my luck there. Nothing works unless you're good looking. I've wasted so much money going to the club, I've tried approaching multiple women and the closest I've got is getting an Instagram account and when I made the move (like I did countless times), she turned out to be a ing gold digger. I've talked to a lot of women, ik what to say, hell, I'm the one who talks to girls from my friend's Instagram and they love it, but only coz my friend is ridiculously good looking. I've had chicks politely decline to straight up ignore me when I approached them and offered to buy a drink or asked for a dance. Nothing works unless you're good looking. There'll be plenty of gold diggers who will come to you when you get a good paying job, but I'm not gonna waste my hard earned on them. I'm going to buy myself some hookers. Way cheaper, it's about as much as I spend on a gram of weed, but since I can afford both, why not. Tbh, I've never been in a relationship, when I told this girl I had a crush on her, she literally started freaking out and was crying, made it sound like I had raped her or something. All I wanted was to date someone, have a good time and stuff. Sex would be great too. Since that ain't gonna happen, why not just spend some money on cheap (but clean) hookers and keep myself engaged with other things. Just in case someone decides to read this and actually take the time to reply, I'd appreciate that but if all you're going to say is either wait for it or go out more, I'm gonna lose it. I've spent so much time, money and effort that I don't feel bad about myself. It's not my fault. I did everything I could and would still do to the best of my abilities. Call me insecure or whatever you want, I tried and failed spectacularly. Btw, here's a pic of myself just in case. I'm open to comments about my appearance. So go crazy.

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    https://photos.app.goo.gl/ArQ7vrLm44PXTWTSA

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    I've had a look at your photo and first of all, you are not even unattractive! I actually pictured someone obese or with acne or something lol No offence to someone obese or with acne! I'm overweight and have a bit of acne myself. What kinds of girls are you trying to pick up? Are they really attractive? Maybe they're a bit out of your league?

    I know it's difficult for guys on online dating and in bars and stuff but you look fine, so it shouldn't be impossible. In your post you actually sound very negative and like you're really feeling sorry for yourself. Women don't like that. People are drawn to happy, positive people. I think you need to have a good attitude and not think negatively about everything. Also I think finding a girl should happen naturally. Bars are probably not a good place because people are just looking for hookups and are likely to go for hotties. I think you need to socialise as much as possible in every day life environments. I don't know what else you expect people to say to you because you said if people give advice "you're gonna lose it". You sound a bit aggressive to be honest...

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    That's my first thought too, are you trying to date women out of your league and this is why you're so frustrated?

    I bet you could get loads of dates, but you're in the wrong pool of women.

    As for a hooker. I'm not going to judge. That's your call and yours alone. I don't feel there is anything "clean" about any hooker, no matter what she tries to tell you.
    It's a risk in many ways.
    But if you're willing to take the risk, then that's completely up to you.

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    Iím not going to click on your photo. Iím amazed anyone did.
    Itís irrelevant what you look like anyway.

    You remind me of a TV advertisement , where a girl is on a first date with an average guy , sees a hot guy , who she passes her number to on way back from toilet to her date.
    He subsequently calls her and he sounds like an idiot on the phone. She quickly hung up lol.

    I canít remember what the ad was about but it made me laugh so much!!!

    It sounds like you are trying with girls out of your league tbh?
    That might be out of your league wrt looks or intelligence?

    Figure out which and you will be well on your way!!

    Have you ever turned down girls ? That you even know of?

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    Calling women "chicks", labelling them as gold diggers, saying you're going to "buy hookers"... sounds like your attitude is the problem, not your looks. It comes across as though you think you are entitled.

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    That is certainly an option if you are too bitter to date.
    Originally Posted by NXSWarrior
    I'm going to buy myself some hookers. Way cheaper, it's about as much as I spend on a gram of weed, but since I can afford both, why not.

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    I'm also not up on all of the hooker stuff, but isn't it still illegal?

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    I'm also not up on all of the hooker stuff, but isn't it still illegal?
    I think that would really depend where you live...In the state I live in Australia it's legal to work in a brothel and there are actually government laws that apply for protection of sex workers and their clients. The sex workers have to get STD tests every three months and if they have STD's, they can't work in a brothel anymore. Street walking is illegal here. I think prostitution is still illegal in some states in Australia though.

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    It's hard to tell as we don't know how you actually approach women, perhaps you are too anxious when approaching them, and that's why they say no. In your post you actually sound negative and bitter, sorry. Buying drinks and asking for a dance does not have to work all the time, some girls, like me, go to the club to dance and enjoy themselves, not necessarily flirt/hook up with men. Do you actually have any female friends? Maybe try to be friends with women before making a move, or just spend more time with women to get to know them a bit more.

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