Originally Posted by Keyman
4 and a half months still is the start of the relationship, and if he makes you feel weird already, then yes, it is time to let him go and move on. He sounds controlling.

At 4 and a half months, you should still be feeling gooey about each other and enjoying each others company, not telling each other what you don't like about their behaviours.
- this. At 4.5 months, if everything was right, you should be in the honeymoon stage of the relationship. If there are problems now, it's only going to get worse.