Originally Posted by veee
By the end of the argument I learned that she was angry because she didn't know how to deal with the fact that I was leaving. In the end I felt that the argument was totally worth it and it made me realize how much she actually loves me.

If an adult throws a tantrum because they don't want someone to leave, it says they have a lot of maturing to do. Unnecessary outbursts of anger is never acceptable or "worth it"... It just shows the person lacks the grown-up skills of simply saying "hey I don't want you to leave and I hate that you are leaving and it makes me sad and angry"

Don't make excuses for an adult just because you are lonely, bitter, scared and angry... You shouldn't have to take care of another grown person's emotional and mental instability.