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Thread: My wife's sexual affair with her personal trainer

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    My wife's sexual affair with her personal trainer

    We've been together for 7 years, with two children, son was 6 and daughter was 2.
    My wife started attending a boot camp in Irvine CA.
    One month later she established a password on her IPhone and notebook. She was getting and writing messages while I can't see it.
    Once I walked in to kitchen and saw her rapidly closing one tab on safari browser. She started spending a lots of time in the front of the
    mirror and wearing sexy clothes before she went to gym. Every Thursday when her trainer was having day off she would come back from "gym" not sweaty and with all her makeup in tact.
    Finally i ran on to her facebook messages with her personal trainer Jose:

    Him: "You smell so good, I still have it on me", Her: "I'm so sore this morning, I can barely move, you killed me:)))".
    Then later she accidentally called me through Skype, I did not answer by some reason, Long message was left with all the details while having sex in her car that I bought for her.

    I have posted screen shots of all facebook messages on boot camp facebook page.
    Owner of camp contacted me and promised to take some action. But nothing was done. Jose's popularity among female customers was too high, and he never fired him.
    I filed divorce withing 15 days.

    Jose is still employed by the boot camp, my children went through hell due to separation of parents.

    Can anyone advice what is the best legal action i can take against this personal trainer?
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    Last edited by PersonalT; 01-22-2020 at 09:44 PM.

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    I presume you deliberately included the personal and business details in the hopes his employer or other clients will see it and confront him or perhaps terminate his employment.

    You are opening yourself up to legal action if he or the company see this.

    This really isn't the best format to use in this situation .

    BTW, are you planning to sue him for sleeping with your wife or something ?

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    I will remove his last name, thank you for advise.
    I'm not sure how can I sue him if she is not going to cooperate.

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    Your post will be deleted for personal info. Please at least show your KIDS some dignity and remove their names.

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    Thank you Seraphim, I made some changes.

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    I would take out all personal identifying content or you could have your post deleted .

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    thank you!

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    Is California a no fault state?

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    Yes, no fault state

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    I canít see how you could sue him and unfortunately your wife is 100% at fault as she is married.

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