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Thread: he's very suicidal but i care about him

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    Get your affairs in order and speak with one of his friends, or better yet a family member before you tell him that you want out. Don't waffle about it.

    Tell him and get as much distance as possible and let his family and friends handle the rest.

    He's abusive and manipulative. He may not kill himself but he's definitely not a safe person to even be around.

    In the meantime tell your family as well.

    I went through something similar when I was younger. Take this seriously.

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    Sorry to say but you are NOT the only reason he is alive.

    You broke up with him after 6 months of dating for good reason. You got back with him for it seems no good reason and he made you promise never to break up with him again or he will kill him self!???
    What a joke!!!? He didnít propose to you then did he ?
    So , no intention to from him to commit to you , only to control you!

    Well, congratulations to him , he is now successfully controlling you.

    Get out!! He wonít kill himself , he wonít even try to. Just threaten to.

    Tell his closest family member or friend that you are breaking up with him, break up with him and then have zero contact with him. No social media, nothing.

    Good luck!

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    It's dangerous to allow yourself to be positioned as someone else's lifeline. I'd tell the guy that we are breaking up, and if he makes any threats of suicide you will call the police, and mean it. You'd also be wise to contact you local women's shelter or domestic violence organization for a plan to stay safe and address possible stalking.

    Understand, that someone who manipulates with suicidal threats is not always just a danger to himself. It's a red flag that the's capable of taking you down with him.

    Protect yourself.

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