Ive talked with the ex wife. Iíve talked with the new boyfriend. Iíve talked with both of my kids.

Itís my opinion that my daughter will be safe if their mom moves in with this guy. If there is any indication that she will not, then I will remove her from the situation immediately.

I see the conversation between other enotaloners playing out much like the one in my head did, heh. But at some point a man has to make a decision. I respect if yours is different. I DO appreciate the input of the folks who feel Iím turning my back on my kids, I just donít agree. That said, reading everyoneís comments truly helps me to clarify my own thoughts and helps me feel confident in my choices. You guys rule!