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    You haven't answered this (dodging the question?)...what was the reason you "exchanged numbers" with that other woman?

    And under what circumstances did you meet her?

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    I commend her for having the self respect to end things. What you did was questionable and within a relationship, it was wrong. Clearly you did it for attention or some intent to cheat. Either way, learn from this and leave her alone.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    How did she come across this info? Why did you decide to sabotage the relationship? No contact is not a game. It means leaving her alone to process.

    Listen, she probably told all her friends and family about this and they most likely advised her to dump you. Give her space. She does not have to continue to date you or make "time in her diary" for you.
    The highlighted part is key - how did she come across this info????????
    If you are still watching this thread OP, this is important information.
    I don't advocate spying on someone else's private property. Did she snoop through your stuff?
    Or, did you come out and tell her?

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    Wait I know... "I was just curious, just looking, etc."
    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    You haven't answered this (dodging the question?)...what was the reason you "exchanged numbers" with that other woman?

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Wait I know... "I was just curious, just looking, etc."
    Or "I was feeling neglected and just wanted some attention". Blaming the girlfriend.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Wait I know... "I was just curious, just looking, etc."
    hi, sorry for late reply! I was travelling to South America for the first time and she said we should swap contact details as she used to live there and would give me her recommendations. That was it.

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    Originally Posted by boltnrun
    Or "I was feeling neglected and just wanted some attention". Blaming the girlfriend.
    No, wasn't feeling neglected at all!

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    Originally Posted by teeEFc
    The highlighted part is key - how did she come across this info????????
    If you are still watching this thread OP, this is important information.
    I don't advocate spying on someone else's private property. Did she snoop through your stuff?
    Or, did you come out and tell her?
    She asked why I was following someone on social media and I said it's because I was speaking to someone to get travel communications and tips. Even offered to call up the person in question in front of my gf to get the truth out

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    she also messaged me today, saying we will have to reschedule meeting up until after Christmas because she's got to work longer now

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    I'm confused here. Were the photos and videos this woman sent you related to South America, or were they flirtatious and suggestive?

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