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    Picking up my kid

    Quick question. Me and my ex (not the mother of my kid) is coming to pick up my kid to spend a night at her place to see her daughter. The kids are friends.

    Things ended up in bad terms, I chased her for a month, and she blocked ne everywhere.

    She has been texting my kid to plan with him when to pick him up from my place, and she hasn't texted or told me anything about it. Because of this reason, when she comes to pick him up, should I even bother to come downstairs with the kid, or just send the kid alone downstairs? Considering that she hasn't even bother contacting me to arrange things directly with me, I feel like not coming downstairs to see her

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    woooaaa hold on ....

    so your ex isn;t in a friendship with the kids mother or a relationship with you and she is taking your kid for the night and arranging it behind your kids mum and your backs ...no ..nope , not happening ...

    unless I have read that all wrong .

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    I agree with, Pippy...why are you allowing this? This is you child. Unless you are on good terms with the ex and she is on good terms with your child's mother, she shouldn't be near your child.

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    No, don't see her.

    Honestly? I find the whole situation concerning, as you're both choosing to involve your children in a breakup. Not sure what her motivation is, but from your last thread, and the question at the heart of this one, I can't help but think that yours is to see if reconciliation can come through a friendship between your mutual children.

    Not cool. You're not friends, or co-parents, but two people who dated for 8 months. Not sure how old the kids are here, but you are both putting your kids in an unfortunate situation: awkwardly civil at best, explosive at worst. Can you not hear the tick, tick, tick of the little bomb?

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    Excuse me???? How old is your child ? If child is a minor tell her to get stuffed and if she doesn’t stop inferring with a minor you can have her arrested for kidnapping.

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    Now, she wants nothing to do with me, she is scared of me because I chased her for 3 to 4 weeks calling and texting her and showed up at her place to talk unannounced.
    ^^^ so that is from your last thread ....we wont get into the whole you pushed her , that was covered ......but she isn't that scared of you or concerned seen as she is messaging YOUR child to pick him up from YOUR house ..

    For crying out loud tell her to get lost ....this is your time with your child and she doesn't get to arrange overnight stays . DO NOT let your child be used as a porn in this rubbish .

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    Originally Posted by pippy longstocking
    ^^^ so that is from your last thread ....we wont get into the whole you pushed her , that was covered ......but she isn't that scared of you or concerned seen as she is messaging YOUR child to pick him up from YOUR house ..

    For crying out loud tell her to get lost ....this is your time with your child and she doesn't get to arrange overnight stays . DO NOT let your child be used as a porn in this rubbish .
    Exactly. And she sneakily went behind your back? She’s a nut job.

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    Flares’ Ahoy flaming red kook to go behind your back to your kid.

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    Originally Posted by ~Seraphim ~
    Exactly. And she sneakily went behind your back? She’s a nut job.
    It is unreal .....imagine messaging the child of the man you are calling the police about , to take that child from his house to spend the bl00dy night .....by god vic ..she makes us look sane love

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    Also Ric , if I was his mum and found out she had taken him , I would literally go mad !

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