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Thread: Boyfriend cheated on me, and now HE is so distraught

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    Agree. He's not who you thought he was. What you do know about him is that he is ready, willing and able to lie to you, cheat on you, hurt you and disrespect you.

    Lies are like cockroaches, if you see just one you know there are many others. He may cheat all the time but only told you about this one. Get to a doctor for STD testing. He's also more interested in sex with others than your safety or well being. Think long and hard about that.
    Originally Posted by HeartGoesOn
    I could be wrong but my guess is he only told you because you know the person he cheated on you with.

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    It's not her job to fix his wandering zipper. They are merely dating. Dating people do not need "couples counseling". If they do, they need to end it. She does not have to stay with a clown like this no less stick around to fix him.
    Originally Posted by cholsen69
    if you both want to put in the work. You may also want to go to couple counseling

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    Well, you are lucky your boyfriend is honest. I guess if you can get over his cheating (some can, some can't) and he never does it again, perhaps the relationship will survive.

    It might take time to get over it. kinda funny how the cheater is the one who needs time. I thought I had seen everything.

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    Cheating is the antithesis of honest.
    Originally Posted by Gary Snyder
    Well, you are lucky your boyfriend is honest.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Cheating is the antithesis of honest.
    - that's true. Honest except for the cheating part.

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    Lol the cheating is a big part.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    It's not her job to fix his wandering zipper. They are merely dating. Dating people do not need "couples counseling". If they do, they need to end it. She does not have to stay with a clown like this no less stick around to fix him.
    The Wandering Zippers could be a good name for a band. I was thinking punk, but the Wandering part methinks sounds like a Irish folk group

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    I think the OP should kick this guy.

    If he thinks he got away with it, he'll do it again.

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