Facebook share
LinkedIn share
Google plus share
Twitter plus share
Give Advice
Ask For Advice
Page 2 of 5 FirstFirst 12345 LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 41

Thread: Caught Boyfriend with Sex Toy: Now what?

  1. #11
    If I was dreaming then it was a pretty realistic dream. Lmao.
    He's 30 and I'm 31. We do have sex. He's pretty quick to finish and over the years that combined with some pretty serious self consciousness on his part he just assumes he's disappointing me every time. I've tried to reassure him that just having sex no matter how long or the end result is enough for me. I know he's not participating in any real life stuff without me. Getting Ready for a First Date

  2. #12
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2016
    Posts
    10,700
    My assumption is that he wanted you to see this.

    I can't fathom what person in their right mind would randomly deep-throat their partner's vibrator in bed right beside her if he never intended her to find out.

    If this indeed an accurate account of events, this was his indirect way of opening the discussion on trying something...new.

  3. #13
    Platinum Member smackie9's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2013
    Location
    Surrey BC, Canada
    Posts
    2,173
    Gender
    Female
    Maybe he's starting to come out.

  4. #14
    The best part is it wasn't my toy.
    I don't know why he wouldn't just bring it up. I'm not shy and he knows I'm down for whatever. :/

  5.  

  6. #15
    Platinum Member ThatwasThen's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Location
    Central Canada
    Posts
    14,632
    Gender
    Female
    *sitting her wondering how a man deep throating an inanimate object would be a turn on (for him) unless he was bi or, like Linda Lovelace, has a clitoris half way down his throat*

    OP: If it turned you on then why let him know you know? Keep it at the voyeur level is my suggestion. Either that or actually let him know you are awake and ask him if you can help.

  7. #16
    Gold Member Skeptic76's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    California
    Age
    43
    Posts
    581
    Gender
    Male
    Originally Posted by MissCanuck
    My assumption is that he wanted you to see this.

    I can't fathom what person in their right mind would randomly deep-throat their partner's vibrator in bed right beside her if he never intended her to find out.

    If this indeed an accurate account of events, this was his indirect way of opening the discussion on trying something...new.
    Bingo. Agree 💯

  8. #17
    Platinum Member reinventmyself's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Posts
    11,184
    Gender
    Female
    Deleted . . . . . .

  9. #18
    Platinum Member reinventmyself's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Posts
    11,184
    Gender
    Female
    Originally Posted by smackie9
    Maybe he's starting to come out.
    That's where my mind went.
    It might explain his inhibitions in the bedroom.

  10. #19
    Sometimes I would wonder but I've seen the porn he watches in private and it's all girls.
    And I find sucking to be super hot. Sometimes that's how I get off. But I can see how maybe being a straight male doing it would be strange.
    I thoroughly enjoy the voyeurism part of it absolutely! But it makes me wonder what else I'm missing out on that I haven't caught him doing. Lol

  11. #20
    Bronze Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2019
    Posts
    139
    I think it's a bigger problem if after 7 years together you can't bring it up to him out in the open.

Page 2 of 5 FirstFirst 12345 LastLast

Videos


Maintaining A Strong Relationship

Detaching From a Malignant Man

Divorced Parents Prefer Technology and Social Media As Communication Tool

Wedding Jitters Could Be a Predictor for a Future Divorce

Botox Fights Depression And Makes You Feel Happier

Men Are More Sensitive than Women when Having Relationship Problems
Give Advice
Ask For Advice

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •