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Thread: Post-sex behaviour seems like he's (28M) into me (24F). Thoughts?

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    Post-sex behaviour seems like he's (28M) into me (24F). Thoughts?

    Had a one night stand with a guy who I met through a mutual friend. We were incredibly touchy, before and post-sex. After sex, we laid by each other and just talked for almost 2 hours. We then went out to the lounge room and cuddled up on the couch talking about a million things. He then was hungry and offered for us both to get some take in. I was sort of mentioning that I should head home and let him sleep but he kept saying, I can stay for a bit longer. We were doing the footsie and everything.

    When I last said it while we were cuddling on the couch, he sort of grabbed me and told me to lay on top of him. He then fell asleep for a short while.

    Never had a guy that genuinely wanted to chat post-sex. Thoughts?

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    Have you been in touch or gone on dates since? It's more telling how it proceeds from here than how the encounter itself went.
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    Had a one night stand with a guy. Never had a guy that genuinely wanted to chat post-sex. Thoughts?

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Have you been in touch or gone on dates since? It's more telling how it proceeds from here than how the encounter itself went.
    This was 3 days ago, not as of yet.

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    Ok then see what happens. Keep this in mind: [Register to see the link]
    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    This was 3 days ago, not as of yet.

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    This makes me sad to read.

    Sweety stop having sex with strangers.

    Just because a guy is willing to have sex with you doesn’t mean much of anything.

    Please stop, work on your self esteem.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    This makes me sad to read.

    Sweety stop having sex with strangers.

    Just because a guy is willing to have sex with you doesn’t mean much of anything.

    Please stop, work on your self esteem.
    ^^^ I agree/don't agree/agree with my darling there ....let me explain ....

    To me ( and it is a very personal choice ) I am ok with casual sex , I have had an interesting sex life in my time , I led it myself and regret nothing ...

    However the key point here is that I chose it ....

    Reading back your threads dusty , you choose one night stands , then you appear to want more ....that is where I agree whole heartedly with figure ...people looking for a shag end up with people who are offering a shag ...and as much I don't always agree with the politics ..it will never change .

    So it is a decision ...you want to shag about or you want to look for someone to have a lasting relationship ...because we can change this world but we will never change the fact that a one night stand is a shag and usually ...nothing more .

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    I agree with figureitout. You had sex with a stranger, despite your perceived 'connection' with him.

    I'm guessing he feels he has a nice candidate for a booty call when he needs it. Have some self respect.

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    Having a one night stand does not mean you don't have self respect !!! We are not all from the same pencil case .

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    Originally Posted by pippy longstocking
    Having a one night stand does not mean you don't have self respect !!! We are not all from the same pencil case .
    I am with you pippy. But you know that already!

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    Originally Posted by dias
    I am with you pippy. But you know that already!
    I do my darling

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