Inviting female friend over in the middle of our date!

[BurtReynolds]

He is a drug addict. This is what they do - drugs are above everything, including the girlfriend..... drugs are their God.

Many people would consider drugs a dealbreaker.

I guess this would also apply to anyone who drinks alcohol also? Or do you not consider alcohol a drug?

[catfeeder]

I guess this would also apply to anyone who drinks alcohol also? Or do you not consider alcohol a drug?

Sure, alcohol or gaming or anything else could plug-and-play in the same scenario--if it's more important than how you treat your date, especially to the degree that you'd rather ditch your date than curb the behavior with your buddy, then it's no surprise that any date would view you as having a problem too serious to continue seeing you.

The substance doesn't matter, the treatment of the date is the point.