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    Crikey Driven.

    She sure changed her tune right quickly! From no kiss at all to jumping your bones.

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    Read up on "situational ED", this is when there is no chronic physiological issue, just anxiety or other issues such as tiredness, drinking, etc. Try to relax and get the appropriate setting such as privacy, not too late, limit drinking, a partner that isn't this iffy. Although if you smoke, do drugs or drink heavily, have undiagnosed diabetes or cardiovascular disease things can start affecting you more often as early as 35 y/o.
    Originally Posted by drivenfuture
    .I can masturbate perfectly fine---and with the first girl it worked the next time we tried.

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    Originally Posted by Wiseman2
    Read up on "situational ED", this is when there is no chronic physiological issue, just anxiety or other issues such as tiredness, drinking, etc. Try to relax and get the appropriate setting such as privacy, not too late, limit drinking, a partner that isn't this iffy. Although if you smoke, do drugs or drink heavily, have undiagnosed diabetes or cardiovascular disease things can start affecting you more often as early as 35 y/o.
    The only ones here that potentially apply is the experience factor...and possibly undiagnosed diabetes...I'm not sure about the anxiety, maybe she had anxiety but I thought I was fine.

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    One, this is just normal. Two, this sounds almost inevitable, at least going from your past threads about this woman.

    I understand that she is an actual person, but your lens in thinking about her has been hyper-sexualized. No kiss by date four and—boom—she became the religious minx, the coy maiden who had the audacity to withhold her bounty from you. A hiccup about guacamole was registered as her teasing you further, as if instead of taking about mashed up avocados she was flashing some skin and saying, "Look, sweet man, but don't touch."

    And so when she was "at last" down to "give it up"—the thing you've been fixated on about her for a while—your head exploded and, with that, the smaller turtle head stayed in its shell to dodge that shrapnel. Happens. Shrug emoji. Own it. Just as she is more than an object placed on earth for your sexual satisfaction, you too are an earthbound mortal who craves more than conquests of the flesh. Like, you know, connection—the true source of unobstructed blood flow.

    So: inhale, exhale. See her again. Remember that she is, like you, a human being, and that's the fun part here. With that, I think, you'll find things level off and start pointing northward once more.

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    Here is the cure.

    STOP watching porn and spanking your monkey. You need to get your mind and body re-accustomed to reality and that will not happen with the fantasy you have taught yourself to get an erection too.

    Pretty simple.

    Lost

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    I think it's more common than not to lose `it' when you are having sex with someone the first time. Nerves and anticipation are at their all time high and sometimes you overthink it and lose it.
    Consider it normal and shake it off.

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