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    I'd see that as an a hole loser trying to project his issues onto me while trying to make himself feel better and superior. Toxic, nasty, abusive, creepy. As others said, my reaction would be goodbye, good riddance, block, delete, never ever have any contact with that kind of a creepy low life again. Sane people do not say things like that, OP. Never ever ever.

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    Thank you everyone. I am starting therapy soon, it's just hard to get over some of the things that he said to me and sometimes it helps to hear different perspectives from a third party. I definitely took it as it being my fault for making him feel like a failure.

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    Have you gone no contact?

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    I haven't reached out to him. He still comments on my social media and posts things directed at me so I stopped using Facebook and viewing his social media.

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    Black hm. Stop allowing him to control you.

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    Why are you hanging on like this? Block and delete him and all his people from all your social media and messaging apps.
    Originally Posted by Geminifeed
    He still comments on my social media and posts things directed at me.

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    Sounds like a load of huey from someone trying to throw blame for his own shortcomings.

    Don't buy it.

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    Originally Posted by Geminifeed
    I definitely took it as it being my fault for making him feel like a failure.
    Nah. Let that stuff go. Take care of yourself and enjoy the finer things. If you don't get along, you don't get along. Be honest with yourself and accept new influences and change, make better changes that give you room to grow in positive ways.

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    Iím sorry you are going

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    Thanks everybody. I'm doing better but it's hard when you still love/miss someone and are also dealing with the guilt from the relationship ending.

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