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    This isn't real and shouldn't be taken as such.
    She's an escort, she isn't taking you seriously anymore than seeing you as a money making machine.

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    Originally Posted by Honeycomb8
    This isn't real and shouldn't be taken as such.
    She's an escort, she isn't taking you seriously anymore than seeing you as a money making machine.
    And the next night, the same with another guy...

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    It takes a certain personality to do that job (lol my keyboard just auto typed John instead of job). But that's what it is. A certain personality who knows how to use their looks, charms and sexual prowess to manipulate and stimulate on a daily basis. You shouldn't think you are special because she does the same with every client.

    You may be falling hard for her but it sounds like someone in love with a bubbly and attractive personality and ignoring all the ugly that is behind the facade.

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    50% Discount = True love.

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    Johnny.

    These are the words of "Samantha" an escort, in an interview with an Australian newspaper. Harsh reality. Samantha was a journalist for 10 years before entering a new profession. The context of the interview is precisely about a client who fell in love with her.

    " Samantha continued to explain that an escort is a fantasy without the reality of marriage, kids, bills to pay, a boss to please and a wife in need of his help at home."

    "She is not really the woman he thinks she is she has bills to pay, stresses and pressures of every day but he doesn't get to hear that.'

    "He is a fool to fall in love with an escort,' she wrote. Continuing: 'If there is something I can assure you of, it is that the escort is not in love with him.'

    OP. You will never meet her family. That life is separate from her business. She may well have a partner IRL, indeed she even could be married! Yes. I know of high-end escorts who are married. Her moments spent with you and her private life might as well be on two different worlds.

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    Thank you for all the words.

    I have accepted the no.

    I am reflecting on why I projected so much of myself. I always knew I wanted intimacy (but no really marriage or kids) and ultimately, this was going to happen.

    Now, how to move on and accept a lack of actions as a no WITHOUT needing to hear it from her.

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    Google "girlfriend experience escorts"

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    Originally Posted by Johnny Utah
    Thank you for all the words.

    I have accepted the no.

    I am reflecting on why I projected so much of myself. I always knew I wanted intimacy (but no really marriage or kids) and ultimately, this was going to happen.

    Now, how to move on and accept a lack of actions as a no WITHOUT needing to hear it from her.
    Good work. Slowly but surely, move forward.

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    Johnny. She isn't going to say no to you.

    Another point to bear in mind is that the high-end escort has a short professional life. Many, if not most, have every intention of setting up a business with the considerable amount of money they have made once they reach an age (early) when the escort business is no longer viable for them. Indeed it is very likely that some or many have already set up a business (whether retail, fashion,, food business etc), and have someone to run for them until they "retire". So, an escort may be a very busy person when not with her clients.

    If she isn't already in a relationship or married she almost certainly will have her own private plans in that respect.

    Her clients' looks or race or height do not concern her, but she may well have a very different idea re the man she will eventually settle down with. Again she will reveal nothing of this to her client.

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    Originally Posted by Johnny Utah
    Thank you for all the words.

    I have accepted the no.

    I am reflecting on why I projected so much of myself. I always knew I wanted intimacy (but no really marriage or kids) and ultimately, this was going to happen.

    Now, how to move on and accept a lack of actions as a no WITHOUT needing to hear it from her.
    She said "no" to a serious, authentic relationship with you the minute that she put her services out there for the offering and you paid her for those services - even before you had sex. Just like meeting a woman for a date and she puts her cards on the table that she is waiting for marriage for sex or she is looking for a man to have kids with. Do you honestly believe "once she has 2 dates with me she will change her convictions?" to either jump into bed with you or decide she doesn't want kids in order to keep you? nope. She stated fully who she was/what was in her parameters the minute you agreed to the hooker/john relationship.

    I think you are in denial if you are waiting for a firm "no, i don't see any future with you"

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