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Thread: Was in a relationship for 8 yrs and he recently told me was seeing another woman

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    Originally Posted by abitbroken
    If you cheated on your husband with him, do you expect a cheater to be faithful?
    Exactly!!!!!!

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    Originally Posted by Brokenheart8
    it ended 2 months ago, September 5. my husband and I did not have any children, and he was so devastated that he left his family and friends and moved to another state just to get away from me. The shame and guilt I am carrying for what I put him through is unbearable. Before my husband left, he told me that he forgives me but will never forget and wishes that I find happiness, little does he know now, that I now am alone...
    That is terribly heartbreaking....not your shame, but your husband's devastation. He sounded like an emotionally mature and good man to not forget, but be able to forgive. It must have been so very bad for him to move so far away. The guilt was not unbearable to you - if it was, you would have nipped the flirtations with this man in the bud. you seemed pretty okay with all the sweet nothings. Hopefully *he* was able to find happiness after such a low blow and hopefully be able to trust someone again.

    The only thing you can do is pick up the pieces. I definitely recommend counseling.

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    You can't expect someone that cheats with a married woman to have great morals. And you cheated on your husband for 8 years...?

    So sorry but -
    karma.

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    Karma. You didn't give a damn about cheating on your husband what do you want us to say here?

    All. I would say is lesson learnt. Behave better in future yourself and you will attract better partners.

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    You have a lot to work through. I hope therapy helps you sort out your behaviors, and become a better person for it.

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