When did you move out? Make sure you delete and block him and all his people from all your messaging apps and social media. Get a restraining order if he's contacting or approaching you. No one called the police when he "punched you in the face" in a bar? How far apart do you live? Is he a heavy drinker?

Enlist the help of friends, family and the appropriate law enforcement and counselling services.

Do not seek out more conflict/violence with a letter like that. A laundry list of gripes won't change him or make you feel better about yourself. He doesn't care. You were just a punching bag to him, not a person. So don't keep going back or trying to get pregnant to hang onto him.

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Originally Posted by Tetris
I live in Reykjavik so it's hard to escape. Then at a bar he punched me in the face and spat at me. The previous time he strangled me in our apartment when I told him I could be pregnant.