Broken down trust

[westheart]

When the trust in a 12+ years marriage has completely broken down. Overwhelmed at where to start or even bother. Feels like things would just be harder financially to split up. I have always been proud of my long marriage and don't want a broken home for my kids. No matter what way you cut it I will lose precious time with them and it will affect their lives. Divorce is something I have never wanted and would be hard for me to accept.

[Wiseman2]

You need to tell your spouse, attorney and therapist all this. Did you have an affair? What do you mean regarding trust?

Feels like things would just be harder financially to split up. I have always been proud of my long marriage and don't want a broken home for my kids. No matter what way you cut it I will lose precious time with them and it will affect their lives. Divorce is something I have never wanted and would be hard for me to accept.

[smackie9]

You are being too vague. We can't help you if you don't give us details.

[DancingFool]

Let's start with what happened that broke the trust? Who did what?