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Thread: I haven't heard from him yet, should I be concerned?

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    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    Yes it's the same guy.
    Message him. Maybe he forgot your social media.

    It happens.

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    Originally Posted by happyfrank
    Message him. Maybe he forgot your social media.

    It happens.
    He actively watches my stories though so I find that a bit hard to believe.

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    Contact him and ask if he wants his stuff back. He's 22 y/o and told you "you blew him like a porn star". That's all this is. What's the dilemma? If you got in bed together and have his stuff you can message him, no? Now is not the time to play coy or hard to get.
    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    He actively watches my stories though so I find that a bit hard to believe.

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    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    He actively watches my stories though so I find that a bit hard to believe.
    So what? I look at a lot of social media of people I do not have an interest in seeing in person or communicating with at all. He's looking because he's interested in seeing your stories. He has no interest IMO in seeing you again. But he might contact you if he feels like having sex with you again. You asked if he is interested in you romantically? No not for purposes of dating or a relationship IMO. I wouldn't put any relevance on whether he looks at your social media and of course it could be anyone else with access to his account or maybe he is showing it to a friend who might want to contact you.

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    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    He actively watches my stories though so I find that a bit hard to believe.
    He likes you. Message him.

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    Originally Posted by happyfrank
    He likes you. Message him.
    What makes you think that? You're the only one who has said that in the replies so far.

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    Originally Posted by dustycloud
    What makes you think that? You're the only one who has said that in the replies so far.
    Because he kept telling you how much he liked you. I wouldn't do that unless I mean it.

    When you rejected his offer to drop you home. Maybe he took it like you weren't really interested.

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    Originally Posted by happyfrank
    Because he kept telling you how much he liked you. I wouldn't do that unless I mean it.

    When you rejected his offer to drop you home. Maybe he took it like you weren't really interested.
    His actions show that he was sexually attracted to her. Actions are what matters other than words that make sure that you're not leading someone on like "I just got out of a serious relationship". People who are interested in dating other people back up words with the action of asking that person out on a date. He's never asked her on a date. They met and hung out and had sex.

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    Originally Posted by Batya33
    His actions show that he was sexually attracted to her. Actions are what matters other than words that make sure that you're not leading someone on like "I just got out of a serious relationship". People who are interested in dating other people back up words with the action of asking that person out on a date. He's never asked her on a date. They met and hung out and had sex.
    Asking somebody on date after wonderful evening is not common. The maturity is not there yet at 21.

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    If you burn your hand on the stove top, just remember... if you touch it again while it's hot, you will burn your hand again. Same action, same results.. Every. Single. Time.

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