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Thread: Help!! Need Advice!! Please no judgements!!

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    "He was all over it like nothing giving the address and everything." What happened after this? Did he follow up with your friend when she didn't show up at his house?

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    That's what you get for %^&* testing your BF. Now there's doubt and more anxiety.

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    He probably realized it was you nd just played along. If you have trust issues, then talk to him, don't play these games, it just makes things more complicated.

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    I can't say I agree on him knowing it was you.

    If he thought it was, I would think he would have said so and called you on it, not happily went along with it.

    You've got no choice here but to end it.

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    Well that sure backfired on you, didnt it? I agree he knew it was you and was also playing games.

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    I think he knew it was you. It was an immature joke.

    How did you transition from random chick has his number to sexy?

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    It will always be difficult to know if he knew it was you or not.

    I honestly feel bad for you, OP. You are in a really tough spot now as to knowing which one. I hope you make the right decision, however, being as your relationship has now transitioned to games like these, maybe it is time to call it a day either way.

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    Either way you should end it. And, not just because he might have taken this random woman up on the offer. People sh*t test their partners because they are insecure and I think this is something you need to work on in yourself.

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    You already said that you'd lost trust in him, so the rest is kinda irrelevant.

    Now it's up to you: do you WANT to stay involved with a guy you don't trust?

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    Originally Posted by SherrySher
    I can't say I agree on him knowing it was you.

    If he thought it was, I would think he would have said so and called you on it, not happily went along with it.

    You've got no choice here but to end it.
    ^This. Don't really see where posters are jumping to the conclusion that he knew. If he did, he might have played along a bit to teach OP a lesson, but then he would have called them out on their "joke" and that would be that.

    OP, you know him and only you know what triggered your gut to suspect he is being dishonest with you. You tested that out and got your answer, albeit one you didn't want to get. Still....it is what it is. I don't think there is any turning back here. If you stay with him, you'll lose even more sleep. Dump him and move on.

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