Stop Caring

[figureitout23]

Well at least you’re finally admitting you were never serious about filing for divorce or moving to the friends place for your mental health.

You were playing relationship chicken.

And you think it worked...

[smackie9]

Hey there is something else at play here. I think he realizes your worth BUT in the same vein, you showing some independence and self worth can be attractive. He's taking notice of this new you. This kind of dynamic can work for couples. Having a life outside the relationship, making your own friends, doing your own thing, will bring a nice balance and keep things fresh. So OP take note. Start having your own life, and he will want to make things work. Slowly but surely things will evolve, communication will improve, and so will the attitude towards each other. Just saying it's worth a shot before signing those divorce papers.