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Thread: Girl says she has extra days off this week and will hit me up....

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    Girl says she has extra days off this week and will hit me up....

    I've been hanging out with this girl but idk her mindset yet. I asked her to hang tomorrow and she said she has an event thing tomorrow but has extra days free this week so she will "hit me up." usually the "I'll call you" is lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing. we were being playful and flirty right before so I honestly dont know if she will or not.

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    If she says she's busy why dont you believe her? You are being negative before you even get started! Give her some time to contact you. Time will tell. If she doesnt then yes, move on.

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    Oh I believe she has a thing tomorrow..that doesnt bother me..its the phrase "I'll hit you up" that has me confused.

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    You are over-analyzing this way too much. What will be will be. Different people use different expressions differently, and even the same person can be inconsistent.

    Actions speaker louder than words, so it is pointless to get hung up every little thing that is said, trying to figure out clues on what she is thinking. If she does contact you in a few days to arrange a date, then she probably likes you, or at least enjoys spending time with you. If she does not, then she is not interested and just said "I'll hit you up" to be polite.

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    It means the same thing as I'll call you or I'll contact you. Dont split hairs over wording!!!

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    If you actually like her, make it clear. Ask her out to do something other than "hang out."

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    Unless she mentions a specific day, and she did not, I would not count on seeing her again. There's a chance, but it's low. I would not keep my calendar open.

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    Is she a pope? It will be so difficult to find one whose speech is beautiful and trustful. Just relax and look at her actions. If she will repeat missing your invites - she isn't interested in you.

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    Just wait for her to call/text you, don't overthink it.

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    Why would you think "I'll call you, I'm free later in the week" is a lack of interest? Are you just hanging out or do you want to date her? Why ask the day before and state "hang out"? Are you hoping to just be friends? Why didn't you ask when she is free and nail down a date then? In a couple of days contact her and ask her on a real date a bit in advance if you want more than the friendzone. Being this passive may indicate to her that you're not that interested so given the "hang outs" and vagueness, she may be moving on.
    Originally Posted by drivenfuture
    I've been hanging out with this girl. usually the "I'll call you" is lack of interest but the way she said it has me second guessing.

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