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    Blocking Advice Needed

    Do you explain to the ex that you're blocking them beforehand or just do it?

    My ex is away on holiday with a guy but so far refusing to admit to me that theyre together despite nobody else believing it. Least of all me. If she'd been honest possibly couldve remained distant friends for we have some shared emotional ties.

    Have already unfriended but new profile pics and videos shared to public hurting me. I cant help but look.

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    Just block her. Don't be petty about it.

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    Just block.

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    Originally Posted by j.man
    Just block her. Don't be petty about it.
    Yup, this.

    You're blocking her for you, and your well being, not to get a reaction from her. So you do it. I don't tell the rain I'm going to use an umbrella because I prefer to stay dry, you know? I just grab the umbrella, open it up, and take a walk.

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    Why do you want her to know you're blocking her? Are you hoping she asks you not to?

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    Yes not sure what you are hoping to get from asking her permission if it's ok that you block her. You don't need it. Just block her.

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    The thing is i've been told by someone else who works with them that ex and new man have been seeing each other when we were together and planning holiday. She doesn't know this.

    i asked her time and again when she told me of holiday to tell the truth but she wouldnt.

    Now i know for sure but am giving her one last chance to be honest before i remove her from everything. which i know i should do anyway but before i go i want tto give her one last chance so when i do go she wont be remembered as a complete lying cheater waster- forever.

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    Originally Posted by misterjister
    The thing is i've been told by someone else who works with them that ex and new man have been seeing each other when we were together and planning holiday. She doesn't know this.

    i asked her time and again when she told me of holiday to tell the truth but she wouldnt.

    Now i know for sure but am giving her one last chance to be honest before i remove her from everything.
    What good would that do?

    What if you say you're blocking her and she says "OK, whatever"?

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    You've put yourself between a rock and a hard place. It's none of your business what she does with her new man or her love life. Those strings weren't cut from the start and unfortunately it's dragged you along a very dusty and confusing road. I know how hard it is to let go of someone you love. It's over though. I'd quit now before things get more confusing and let her be.

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    sorry bolt see edit for reason.

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