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Thread: Should I pull back and give her space?

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    Maybe she thinks you only want to hook up with her. Why did you wait 2 weeks to ask her out again?

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    You had sex with her and didnít ask her out for two weeks. She probably thinks YOU donít want anything serious.

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    Agree. Especially if you work together and the first couple of dates were make out and sex dates. If you are still interested don't "hang out". Ask her out and make a suggestion like dinner or an event, something where she understands in more than getting in the cute office girls pants.
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    You had sex with her and didnít ask her out for two weeks. She probably thinks YOU donít want anything serious.

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    Yaaaaa I'm gonna go with your lack of enthusiasm by waiting two weeks to ask her out again after sex...lame. Either that or the sex wasn't that great and she's backin out putting you in the friends zone.

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    You had sex, then waited two weeks to ask her out again? EEEEEK!! She thinks you're a player, and only want one thing from her. If this isn't true, ask her to a proper date. Dinner and a show (not in your pants), like a play or a movie or a concert. Bring flowers.

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    You had sex, then waited two weeks to ask her out again? EEEEEK!! She thinks you're a player, and only want one thing from her. If this isn't true, ask her to a proper date. Dinner and a show (not in your pants), like a play or a movie or a concert. Bring flowers. In fact, send her flowers to the office.

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    Why did you wait so long after sex before asking her out? And when you asked her to hang out two weeks later, does she know you mean take her on a proper date? She may think you want to just fool around again and she probably doesnít want that kind of relationship. Did you make it known you want to take her out? She was probably waiting those two weeks thinking, when is he going to finally ask me out?!

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