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    He's a cheat so don't want or take him back!

    LDR generally don't work either so you are better finding a partner closer to home when you have healed.

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    Originally Posted by Lynn01
    Because he's not the guy I fell in love with. It isn't like him, how could a few days drinking heavily totally change his personality?
    Drinking didn't change his personality, but it may have shocked him into realizing that he wasn't ready for something serious with you.

    This is the guy you fell in love with but it sounds like he has been contemplating splitting up with you and just not told you and maybe hoped the feelings would go away on their own.

    Sorry OP :(

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    Awful. It may seem difficult to understand right now but when you look back at this period of your life you will thank your lucky stars he showed himself to be what he is sooner rather than later.

    Usually when someone doesn't turn out to be what they expected to be there's a very strong silver lining no matter how desperate and deplorable a situation. That silver lining will show itself soon. Don't be blind to it and learn to pick up where this has left off and live your life fully with no regrets going forward. Carpe diem.

    You know that apartment you were going to get and all that fun you were going to have and those holidays you envisioned yourself on after exams? Those plans and dreams all still exist within you with a little alteration. Do a little hemming and stitching.

    You've got a new life ahead of you. Take your time to grieve but don't waste your time lamenting for so long that you fall into the habit of wasting your youth and overthinking episodes of your life that don't deserve that much from you.

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    No, he will NOT come back to you. Give up on him because he gave up on you. With all due respect, never be pathetic nor pitiful to any man or yourself. You deserve to be treated with respect. Any other man is REJECT.

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