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Thread: On & Off Emotionally Abusive Marriage... I am Deciding Whether to Stay or Leave

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    SR...

    From your posts, in my opinion, you have some major issues that need to be addressed. I'm not even sure that your "abusive" marriage is even a real issue.

    You appear to be a professional victim, blaming everyone else for your problems. Very defensive and accusatory...

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    Originally Posted by SingingRain
    I¬ím too frustrated on here. I¬ím having to defend myself against insults and attacks and I am not getting the help and support I need. How much more support do I need??? How insulting is that? I need a lot of support right now but clearly this is not the place for me to get it. I¬ím not looking for coddling. I¬ím 49 and am a grown adult. I can take care of myself. But I¬ím done with all the insults on here. Who doesnít fight back when verbal insults are thrown? Or when youíre getting g attacked verbally and abused? Let me ask you that. I donít take it lying down.. the abuse that is. I fight back. And that doesnít work either.

    I will stick to the Facebook groups I joined on marriage and abuse. Iíve found far better support there than on here and far greater compassion for my situation.
    How is that insulting?

    Women die.

    Everyday.

    My asking you how much more support do you need before you walk away from something killing you emotionally is insulting?

    You said you have family, friends, a therapist and apparently Facebook groups walking you through this, yet you need more and more and more. That is a very very very bad thing. You are not coping well, that is what Iím saying.

    You need a village of support to endure a marriage...

    Let that sink in...

    This is not how things are supposed to be.

    I could have died, I wanted to die, my ex husband could have died, he was arrested, he attempted suicide because of the guilt of what heíd done to me, doesnít match the google diagnosis does it? Donít insult me by saying Iím not listening or I donít understand, I have been there, you are slowly killing yourself staying in this relationship. Will it be easy to leave, no, you have to be ready or you will go back, but you need to start the process, you just do, speak with your therapist and come up with an action plan.

    Please.

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    And once again Iím leaving. Thank you all so much. For those who been kind. I appreciate it.

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    You keep saying you're leaving the forum. But you don't.

    I feel you are enjoying telling people off.

    I could speculate your husband isn't the only one with anger issues. You are being extremely argumentative here.

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    Originally Posted by SingingRain
    camber. And you would be defensive too if all youíre getting are insults and accusations on your own thread. Youíre a jerk! Get off my thread please.
    See, there you go again...

    I'm just trying to point this out to you. Can you not see it?

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    Why do you focus only on the negative?

    I took the time to respond to you and attempt to communicate and instead youíre going at it with another poster...

    Come on girl, you gotta see what youíre doing...

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    And thatís because people are accusing me and insulting me. And Iím plain done with it. As I said before I appreciate those who have been very kind.

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    Singing in all seriousness, if you want help with resources, etc. DM me.

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    Camber,
    Leave me alone and get off my thread as I asked. I donít want YOUR opinions or input. Clearly you just want to start a fight. Youíre probably an abuser yourself.

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    Originally Posted by figureitout23
    Singing in all seriousness, if you want help with resources, etc. DM me.
    Thank you...

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